Archangel Gabriel Channeled Message: People Pleasing and Your Self-Healing Process

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After listening to my podcast, you obviously associate me

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with being a podcaster and helping

people with their healing journey.

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But did you also know that

I channel spirit, along with

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being a Reiki master teacher?

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I have a channeled

message coming up for you.

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I felt the call to reach out to

spirit to give you some advice for

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your people pleaser healing journey.

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I am going to channel this

directly from Archangel Gabriel.

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When I'm channeling, I'm allowing

Archangel Gabriel to speak through me.

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So this is a direct message.

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With me being the channel.

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All right, let's what he has to say.

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Being open minded is the first and

the key step in the healing process.

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Having an ongoing healing journey

is part of being human, but it

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is also about executing a plan.

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Healing modalities can sometimes

wrap the person up in this need to

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fulfill a story of I am the victim,

I need to heal to be a better person.

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While forgetting to acknowledge that

You are valid and you are worthy

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within your current state of being.

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You are born worthy of the life that

you desire, the experiences you wish to

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encounter, and likewise, you are worthy

of growth and healing that comes from any

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of the somewhat daunting experiences you

might have had thus far in your lifetime.

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I bring this up because I want to make

sure it is clear in your mind that there

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is nothing inherently wrong with you.

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To punish yourself for your past,

present, and future choices is

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to be your own worst critic.

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You are often harder on yourself

than anyone else in your life, saying

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unimaginable things to yourself.

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That you would never utter

to another human being.

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This is the rite of passage.

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Becoming the observer of

the mind- thought patterns

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that occur on a daily basis.

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When these mind- thought patterns have

taken the wheel in your life, this is

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what you inherently call people pleasing.

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But really, it's pleasing the mind.

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It is pleasing the mind patterns.

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By adhering to what the mind is spewing

out to you instead of tapping in to your

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inner connection to your highest self,

to that deep soul connection within.

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You have an inner guidance

system within yourself.

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This is like an inner compass,

always pointing you north.

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There is no punishment for

turning east, west, or south,

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for going back a few steps.

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Because all is in divine time.

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There is, however, always an easier,

smoother path option for you to take.

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But sometimes the smoother path

is not always the best path.

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How is this the case, you ask?

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Well, the human condition wants

to avoid pain and suffering.

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But from our uncomfortable places

in space and time, we Allow the

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utterance of new desires, new points

of focus, and new belief systems to

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start to come to fruition within you.

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Without resistance, without pain,

and yes, without some level of

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suffering, you would not evolve.

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So allowing those circumstances to

take place without resistance, but with

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full curiosity, is going to allow you

to heal and grow at a more rapid pace.

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Now, how does this apply to your

daily interactions with the other

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humans in your life who are also

going through these same experiences?

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it starts by looking inward.

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Looking at your relationships,

looking at the dynamics in your

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relationships is a secondary step.

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The first is looking at your

relationship between you and you.

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If you do not allow that to happen,

Connection between you, your human

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self, and you, the spiritual self.

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If you do not harness that energy

and grow that connection, then any

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connection that you make outside

of yourself will always be waning.

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Will never be consistently

appealing to you because you

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will waffle back and forth.

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Based on the confines of

your mind- thought story.

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This means, if you call yourself a

people pleaser, and you allow that

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to take over, and that becomes the

map of your life, then you will

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never stray off that path because it

has become a part of your identity.

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So first thing to take off the

table is the label people pleaser.

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We know that this is a good term

to bundle together a series of

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emotions, thoughts, and patterns.

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But we implore you to take that

off of your labeling system.

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Allow yourself to just be.

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Allow yourself to see the

truth of who you really are.

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You do this through meditation,

through quieting the mind, through

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grounding yourself in nature, through

music, through dance, through moving

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your body, moving the energy within

your cells, allowing things to flow.

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A lot of the time, people pleasing

tendencies stem from anxiety and

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stress, which is really stuck energy.

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Not allowing yourself to process

energy, emotions, Feelings that come

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to the surface when you are paying

attention to the mind- thought

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patterns that arise in your daily life.

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What does this look like on a human level?

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This looks like listening to

your partner's complaints.

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And internalizing them, thinking that

they are truth, thinking that that

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is the information you need to be

listening to, to base your worth and

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your success as a partner off of, when

really, your connection between you

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and you is the partnership that you

need to foster first and foremost.

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When you make that connection with

you and you, it will be for your

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highest good and the good of all.

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And therefore, it will positively impact

all of the relationships in your life.

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Do you avoid sitting in stillness

alone with yourself and your thoughts?

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Do you avoid slowing down, turning off

all technology, and sitting in a room in

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quiet silence, in peace, and in stillness?

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This is a key indicator of

where you are in your depth of

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connection between you and you.

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Avoiding stillness and avoiding silence is

just simply a thought pattern and a habit.

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It is a belief that sitting

alone with yourself is unsafe.

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We understand that there are

traumas that have impacted some

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of your lives and your journey.

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We understand this.

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We also understand, at a larger,

higher level, the energy that consumes

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you on a day to day basis when you

are hiding and running from them.

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Sitting with your truths is

what negatively impacts you

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and keeps you in these cycles

that you call people pleasing.

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Allow yourself to be the stillness.

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When you're sitting in traffic in your

car, are you the stillness, trusting

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that this is where you're meant to be?

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Or are you honking your horn,

flipping off the car in front of you?

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Are you creating and contributing to

the energy of fear, or are you creating

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and contributing to the energy of faith?

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This is the core premise for which

you should live your life by.

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This is the filter through which

your thought, your mind, your body

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connection needs to be filtered.

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Humans often times want to look

outward to place blame, but you

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are responsible for the energy that

you contribute and put out there.

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Allowing people to be as they need

to be while simultaneously allowing

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yourself to be who you are is

the simple premise behind healing

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from the term people pleasing.

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You will not feel the need to

please others when you are strongly

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connected between you and you.

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You will start to live authentically

and understand that everyone is on

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their own healing journey and that

their connection between themselves

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and their highest self is reflected

in their choices and their suffering.

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So bringing yourself into the

present moment Not enabling the

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stories that your brain wants to

tell you about past interferences

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with your well being or your rights.

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Instead, replacing it with ideas

of hope, with faith, that things

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do not have to remain the same.

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This is the foundational belief

system that will move you forward.

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Operating from a place of faith

and hope versus fear of others

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interjecting into your experience.

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We go with this final thought.

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Allow yourself to have amazing experiences

and you will be amazed by the miracles

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that take place on a daily basis.

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From a butterfly crossing your path, to

the wind blowing through your hair, to

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smiles from random, seemingly strangers

on the street, You will come to find all

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of these moments as things to cherish.

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When you find the sacredness of Every

day, then people pleasing will fade away.

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It will be a thing of the past

because you will no longer be aligned

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with this invading feeling of fear.

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Instead you will be aligned

with this loving, Endearing,

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light filled place of faith.

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Thank you for listening

to what we have to say.

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Do not worry about completely

comprehending every part of the message.

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It is now within you at a

vibrational level, allowing it to

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be a catalyst for your healing and

change and shift in perception.

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Thank you for listening to this

channeled message from Archangel Gabriel.

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I don't know if you noticed, but

halfway through the message started to

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say we, so I've asked and it's because

Archangel Michael and Archangel Raphael

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stepped forward halfway through.

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I hope that this brought you peace and

clarity and you can walk away after

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listening to this episode feeling

a little more at ease and at home.

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Within yourself many blessings to you