Episode 20

Archangel Gabriel Channeled Message: People Pleasing and Your Self-Healing Process

Published on: 26th October, 2024

"You are born worthy of the life that you desire, the experiences you wish to encounter, and likewise, you are worthy of growth and healing." -Archangel Gabriel channeled by Jenny Leckey

In this episode, Jenny delivers a channeled message from Archangel Gabriel who offers advice for healing from people pleasing. This message is directly from AA Gabriel - a special gift for you on your healing journey✨

AA Gabriel's message emphasizes the importance of self-worth, inner connection, and mindfulness. AA Gabriel advises listeners to avoid punishing themselves for their choices, to cultivate an authentic connection between their human and spiritual selves, and to embrace stillness and self-awareness as a means of healing. He delves into different ways of viewing why people fall into these patterns in relationships and how to start to change to allow for the life experiences that you desire (and deserve!).

Tune in for a unique perspective on people pleasing and how to begin to heal at a deeper and more rapid level.

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Transcript
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After listening to my podcast, you obviously associate me

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with being a podcaster and helping

people with their healing journey.

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But did you also know that

I channel spirit, along with

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being a Reiki master teacher?

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I have a channeled

message coming up for you.

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I felt the call to reach out to

spirit to give you some advice for

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your people pleaser healing journey.

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I am going to channel this

directly from Archangel Gabriel.

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When I'm channeling, I'm allowing

Archangel Gabriel to speak through me.

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So this is a direct message.

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With me being the channel.

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All right, let's what he has to say.

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Being open minded is the first and

the key step in the healing process.

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Having an ongoing healing journey

is part of being human, but it

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is also about executing a plan.

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Healing modalities can sometimes

wrap the person up in this need to

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fulfill a story of I am the victim,

I need to heal to be a better person.

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While forgetting to acknowledge that

You are valid and you are worthy

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within your current state of being.

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You are born worthy of the life that

you desire, the experiences you wish to

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encounter, and likewise, you are worthy

of growth and healing that comes from any

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of the somewhat daunting experiences you

might have had thus far in your lifetime.

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I bring this up because I want to make

sure it is clear in your mind that there

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is nothing inherently wrong with you.

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To punish yourself for your past,

present, and future choices is

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to be your own worst critic.

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You are often harder on yourself

than anyone else in your life, saying

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unimaginable things to yourself.

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That you would never utter

to another human being.

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This is the rite of passage.

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Becoming the observer of

the mind- thought patterns

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that occur on a daily basis.

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When these mind- thought patterns have

taken the wheel in your life, this is

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what you inherently call people pleasing.

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But really, it's pleasing the mind.

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It is pleasing the mind patterns.

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By adhering to what the mind is spewing

out to you instead of tapping in to your

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inner connection to your highest self,

to that deep soul connection within.

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You have an inner guidance

system within yourself.

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This is like an inner compass,

always pointing you north.

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There is no punishment for

turning east, west, or south,

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for going back a few steps.

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Because all is in divine time.

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There is, however, always an easier,

smoother path option for you to take.

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But sometimes the smoother path

is not always the best path.

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How is this the case, you ask?

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Well, the human condition wants

to avoid pain and suffering.

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But from our uncomfortable places

in space and time, we Allow the

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utterance of new desires, new points

of focus, and new belief systems to

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start to come to fruition within you.

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Without resistance, without pain,

and yes, without some level of

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suffering, you would not evolve.

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So allowing those circumstances to

take place without resistance, but with

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full curiosity, is going to allow you

to heal and grow at a more rapid pace.

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Now, how does this apply to your

daily interactions with the other

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humans in your life who are also

going through these same experiences?

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it starts by looking inward.

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Looking at your relationships,

looking at the dynamics in your

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relationships is a secondary step.

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The first is looking at your

relationship between you and you.

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If you do not allow that to happen,

Connection between you, your human

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self, and you, the spiritual self.

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If you do not harness that energy

and grow that connection, then any

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connection that you make outside

of yourself will always be waning.

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Will never be consistently

appealing to you because you

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will waffle back and forth.

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Based on the confines of

your mind- thought story.

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This means, if you call yourself a

people pleaser, and you allow that

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to take over, and that becomes the

map of your life, then you will

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never stray off that path because it

has become a part of your identity.

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So first thing to take off the

table is the label people pleaser.

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We know that this is a good term

to bundle together a series of

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emotions, thoughts, and patterns.

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But we implore you to take that

off of your labeling system.

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Allow yourself to just be.

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Allow yourself to see the

truth of who you really are.

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You do this through meditation,

through quieting the mind, through

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grounding yourself in nature, through

music, through dance, through moving

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your body, moving the energy within

your cells, allowing things to flow.

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A lot of the time, people pleasing

tendencies stem from anxiety and

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stress, which is really stuck energy.

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Not allowing yourself to process

energy, emotions, Feelings that come

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to the surface when you are paying

attention to the mind- thought

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patterns that arise in your daily life.

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What does this look like on a human level?

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This looks like listening to

your partner's complaints.

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And internalizing them, thinking that

they are truth, thinking that that

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is the information you need to be

listening to, to base your worth and

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your success as a partner off of, when

really, your connection between you

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and you is the partnership that you

need to foster first and foremost.

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When you make that connection with

you and you, it will be for your

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highest good and the good of all.

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And therefore, it will positively impact

all of the relationships in your life.

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Do you avoid sitting in stillness

alone with yourself and your thoughts?

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Do you avoid slowing down, turning off

all technology, and sitting in a room in

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quiet silence, in peace, and in stillness?

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This is a key indicator of

where you are in your depth of

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connection between you and you.

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Avoiding stillness and avoiding silence is

just simply a thought pattern and a habit.

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It is a belief that sitting

alone with yourself is unsafe.

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We understand that there are

traumas that have impacted some

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of your lives and your journey.

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We understand this.

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We also understand, at a larger,

higher level, the energy that consumes

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you on a day to day basis when you

are hiding and running from them.

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Sitting with your truths is

what negatively impacts you

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and keeps you in these cycles

that you call people pleasing.

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Allow yourself to be the stillness.

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When you're sitting in traffic in your

car, are you the stillness, trusting

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that this is where you're meant to be?

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Or are you honking your horn,

flipping off the car in front of you?

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Are you creating and contributing to

the energy of fear, or are you creating

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and contributing to the energy of faith?

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This is the core premise for which

you should live your life by.

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This is the filter through which

your thought, your mind, your body

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connection needs to be filtered.

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Humans often times want to look

outward to place blame, but you

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are responsible for the energy that

you contribute and put out there.

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Allowing people to be as they need

to be while simultaneously allowing

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yourself to be who you are is

the simple premise behind healing

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from the term people pleasing.

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You will not feel the need to

please others when you are strongly

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connected between you and you.

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You will start to live authentically

and understand that everyone is on

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their own healing journey and that

their connection between themselves

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and their highest self is reflected

in their choices and their suffering.

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So bringing yourself into the

present moment Not enabling the

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stories that your brain wants to

tell you about past interferences

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with your well being or your rights.

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Instead, replacing it with ideas

of hope, with faith, that things

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do not have to remain the same.

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This is the foundational belief

system that will move you forward.

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Operating from a place of faith

and hope versus fear of others

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interjecting into your experience.

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We go with this final thought.

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Allow yourself to have amazing experiences

and you will be amazed by the miracles

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that take place on a daily basis.

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From a butterfly crossing your path, to

the wind blowing through your hair, to

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smiles from random, seemingly strangers

on the street, You will come to find all

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of these moments as things to cherish.

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When you find the sacredness of Every

day, then people pleasing will fade away.

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It will be a thing of the past

because you will no longer be aligned

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with this invading feeling of fear.

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Instead you will be aligned

with this loving, Endearing,

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light filled place of faith.

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Thank you for listening

to what we have to say.

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Do not worry about completely

comprehending every part of the message.

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It is now within you at a

vibrational level, allowing it to

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be a catalyst for your healing and

change and shift in perception.

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Thank you for listening to this

channeled message from Archangel Gabriel.

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I don't know if you noticed, but

halfway through the message started to

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say we, so I've asked and it's because

Archangel Michael and Archangel Raphael

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stepped forward halfway through.

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I hope that this brought you peace and

clarity and you can walk away after

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listening to this episode feeling

a little more at ease and at home.

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Within yourself many blessings to you

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About the Podcast

Diary of a Recovering People Pleaser
Real life stories of people pleasers healing in the wild
Humans learn through stories. Heal through stories. Feel SEEN through stories. That's why I created this podcast diary-style, for people to feel seen and know that you're not alone in your people pleaser ways. And to give you the courage to take steps towards healing.

The show is a mix of individual “diary entry” style episodes and interviews where we share relatable people pleasing stories, experiences and advice for your recovering people pleaser journey. All are welcome.

🛋 Listening vibes:
Think 1 am, sitting on the sofa cuddled with fluffy pillows and blankets, enjoying an evening with your bestie & having deep heart to heart conversations.

💜A Note from Your Host:
I am a former English teacher turned Reiki Master Healer & meditation teacher who brings you healing stories and ideas through a spiritual lens. This podcast is where spirituality meets psychology.

Some topics and tools we’ll dive into along the way:
ˑ Reiki
ˑ Meditation
ˑ Breath Work
ˑ Journaling
ˑ Energy work
ˑ Channeling
ˑ Psychic abilities
ˑ Philosophy
ˑ Grounding, clearing & shielding energy
ˑ Chanting
ˑ Sound healing
ˑ Divine feminine/masculine
ˑ and of course psychology- it is the child of philosophy after all!

Sending you lots of love on your people pleasing healing journey,
~Jenny Leckey

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